Ok so i've got a gorgeous beautiful girlfriend. We've been together for about a year and a half and I really get on with her and we have a great love life. However Im only 22 and I met this girl and started a relationship with her immediately after coming out of a pretty intense 5 year relationship. After that I was just really looking for a fling but now its turned into this.

I feel like my life as a young man should involve going out with my friends and meeting loads of different people and having lots of sex with a variety of women. Basically I feel like Im missing out. i've never really had experience of going out and 'pulling' girls 'cause of these two relationships I've been in.

My girlfriend at the moment also comes from an indian sikh family whereas I am from a white family. She practices her religion though like I practice mine, which is not at all. the problem with this though is that although we have been going out for nearly two years her family knows nothing about me or our relationship. the reason for this being basic rejection on the part of her family to accept that she can or would go out with a man who is either not indian or more particularly not a Sikh.

Like I say she is gorgeous she makes me laugh and we get on amazingly. my question is this though, two years for me is definitely a serious relationship, but how can she be taking it seriously or expect it to go anywhere if she wont even tell her family she has a boyfriend. I realise the amount of aggravation she would no doubt get but at the end of the day shes going to have to tell them at some point whether its about me or someone else she meets in the future.

So in this context I'm unsure what to do. Should I carry on in a realtionship that I really enjoy and get alot out of but that probably has no future or should I go it alone?